The crux of your argument is that I missed the scheduled time (which is true in some sense, but its not really the complete truth when you consider the context of it), and my "psychic comment" is relevant because knowing your situation is crucial to my understanding of how the scheduled time was intended to function.
When your first response ends in an "n_n" and your next response to my concerns about time flexibility is "I will be able to stick around for an hour or two so no worries lol," my understanding is that its ok if i'm not able to come on right at 7 or even a while after because you're intending to just be hanging around online for a while around that time. For me, coming on at 8 is not really missing the scheduled time (at least in a way that will present a problem) because you were going to be on for a while anyway (so no worries lol).
When this situation changes, its pretty fair for me to expect that you can just inform me of that, so I can adjust my plans or the scheduled time as necessary. If you never tell me anything, you can't expect me to know it and suddenly gleam a new meaning from whatever you said. This is not only theoretically meaningful, but also tangibly relevant. I had scheduled some plans for wedneday evening instead of thursday keeping in mind that we had scheduled our game for then, but because an unexpected issue came up, I was forced to move it to thursday without much say or control in the matter. I would have said something about this that day itself so we could find a better time or refine our scheduling, but based on what you had communicated, it didn't seem necessary at all (and when i first asked "just in case something comes up..." your response made me feel like I really shouldn't worry at all about the matter and that it may just be an unecessary hassle for you to worry about the scheduling anymore (cuz "no worries lol", right?)). Since you never said anything to me, I had no way of knowing that this could become an issue of me missing the scheduled time and you potentially not having any other time before the deadline to play, and I also have no way to more securely ensure that we can play.
Also you don't seem too incapacitated to me seeing as you posted twice within the hour and edited one of your posts 15 minutes later, even though you "honestly just need to sleep". Have some rest tonight and lmk when you can play tomorrow, I will be free until I have to catch a flight (so around or before 3). Don't worry, I won't turn on the timer if you have to puke or lie down for a few minutes. Playing me will be easier than trying to fight this out. If you want to discuss this more instead of playing, I think we should move back to your wall instead of cluttering up this thread.