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Sup. I wanted to make this thread because I've been having some issues and was curious as to if there are people here dealing with the same ones. I figured that even if not, there are probably a decent amount of people dealing with similar problems or who experience apathy at least to some sort of level. Perhaps other people as well can use this thread as an outlet and a way to seek advice.
As for myself, I've been having some sort of depression for the past 6 years. I don't believe it has ever been too severe, just very long lasting. I've tried out some medication both back in middle school as well as recently (less than two months back), but neither times have they helped, and in fact, they had only made things worse. My counselor recently suggested that I have something called Dysthymia, which from my very basic understanding, is just mild but long lasting depression along with some other symptoms. One of those symptoms is apathy, something that I've been experiencing a more than fair amount for the last 6 years as well, but have recently been experiencing much more of it. At some point up until maybe two years ago, I enjoyed playing basketball. I no longer get nearly as much pleasure from it. Back in middle school, I had tried out smoking and drinking a few times, but never really felt anything from doing such things either. Sure, it's been a long time since and there's a chance I may enjoy tobacco or a drink now, but there's also the fact that I should probably be happy that I never got into those. Two months ago, I began to realize that I don't even enjoy sex, which was a shocker to say the least. Up until that point, I had always been very curious as to what it felt like, and sex was something that I was looking forward to. Something else that I was looking forward to was a relationship, as I haven't had one to this day. However, as soon as I realized that I didn't enjoy sex, the appeal of having a relationship also began to decline. Things only went downhill from there. I've even been losing interest in watching shows and playing this game. Oh, and I also never really had a care for wealth either.
Now I'm at a point where nothing of the norm gives me pleasure or interests me, and I'm unsure whether anything at all interests me actually. I don't value money, I don't enjoy drugs, don't enjoy sex, don't enjoy playing basketball as much as I used to, and don't have nearly as much of a craving for relationships or even friendships anymore either. Not that I ever really had motivation, but right now I have absolutely none. I recently got the first job that I've actually earned, and have also finished my first semester in community college with a 3.2 GPA. The latter is actually an accomplishment for me, seeing as I graduated high school with a mere 1.7 GPA. However, it's been getting to the point where I'm considering quitting the job and taking a break from college. I don't really feel the need for money; I have more than enough clothes and don't really desire much else. As for college, I recently switched my major to Psychology and was supposed to start taking classes for it in the Spring, but now I'm even more unsure of what I want to do.
My counselor also suggested I start trying things out of the usual for me, such as skydiving. Or going on a roller coaster, which is something I still haven't done. I'm usually afraid of heights, but right now I wouldn't be reluctant to go on a roller coaster or anything of the sort. Though, I don't see myself enjoying it either. Any thoughts? Or are there any activities that anyone here thinks are super enjoyable and ones worth trying out? I haven't tried out much at all, so I'm open to trying just about anything that isn't completely ridiculous.
As for myself, I've been having some sort of depression for the past 6 years. I don't believe it has ever been too severe, just very long lasting. I've tried out some medication both back in middle school as well as recently (less than two months back), but neither times have they helped, and in fact, they had only made things worse. My counselor recently suggested that I have something called Dysthymia, which from my very basic understanding, is just mild but long lasting depression along with some other symptoms. One of those symptoms is apathy, something that I've been experiencing a more than fair amount for the last 6 years as well, but have recently been experiencing much more of it. At some point up until maybe two years ago, I enjoyed playing basketball. I no longer get nearly as much pleasure from it. Back in middle school, I had tried out smoking and drinking a few times, but never really felt anything from doing such things either. Sure, it's been a long time since and there's a chance I may enjoy tobacco or a drink now, but there's also the fact that I should probably be happy that I never got into those. Two months ago, I began to realize that I don't even enjoy sex, which was a shocker to say the least. Up until that point, I had always been very curious as to what it felt like, and sex was something that I was looking forward to. Something else that I was looking forward to was a relationship, as I haven't had one to this day. However, as soon as I realized that I didn't enjoy sex, the appeal of having a relationship also began to decline. Things only went downhill from there. I've even been losing interest in watching shows and playing this game. Oh, and I also never really had a care for wealth either.
Now I'm at a point where nothing of the norm gives me pleasure or interests me, and I'm unsure whether anything at all interests me actually. I don't value money, I don't enjoy drugs, don't enjoy sex, don't enjoy playing basketball as much as I used to, and don't have nearly as much of a craving for relationships or even friendships anymore either. Not that I ever really had motivation, but right now I have absolutely none. I recently got the first job that I've actually earned, and have also finished my first semester in community college with a 3.2 GPA. The latter is actually an accomplishment for me, seeing as I graduated high school with a mere 1.7 GPA. However, it's been getting to the point where I'm considering quitting the job and taking a break from college. I don't really feel the need for money; I have more than enough clothes and don't really desire much else. As for college, I recently switched my major to Psychology and was supposed to start taking classes for it in the Spring, but now I'm even more unsure of what I want to do.
My counselor also suggested I start trying things out of the usual for me, such as skydiving. Or going on a roller coaster, which is something I still haven't done. I'm usually afraid of heights, but right now I wouldn't be reluctant to go on a roller coaster or anything of the sort. Though, I don't see myself enjoying it either. Any thoughts? Or are there any activities that anyone here thinks are super enjoyable and ones worth trying out? I haven't tried out much at all, so I'm open to trying just about anything that isn't completely ridiculous.