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Don't hate STABmons; it's a wonderful metagame. I understand that losing to Webs HO isn't fun at all since you can't really do much once a few of your mons get removed, but don't give up please! I'll help you build more webs- and keldeo-proof teams if you'd like. STABmons isn't going anywhere and quitting now isn't worth it. Please stay and please keep having fun!